Basically the Apple TV remote app is just broken. Disconnect after your phone sleeps then you have to restart the app for it to work. Incredibly frustrating.
This app would be great if a few features were added that the origin app has, something as basic as a "play" functioning button rather than tapping into multiple layers of titles just to play a show/movie.
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